What makes you a bad mom?

Well where do I start, sometimes I let them drink soda, I have even let them snack before dinner...and on really bad days, when mommy is tired, we eat cornflakes with bananas for dinner...I also let me 2 year old sneak (or so he thinks), in the bed with mommy and daddy, and instead of doing what "proper parents do" and put him back in his own bed, I let him stay. We also watch alot of cartoons, and I make them do alot of chores, (picking up toys after yourself can be hard work)...hhmm this list could go on and on...so what makes you a bad mommy lol??